7 Benefits of Joining a Creative Writing Membership

Memberships have become more and more of a common model and part of everyday life for so many of us. Whether it’s video streaming services, gym memberships, monthly food or hygiene delivery, or activity boxes for kids, there are memberships for pretty much everything you can think of. Creative Writing learning is no exception. From finding community of likeminded creatives to expert support to specific journey steps to guide you along your individual path for growth, there are myriad benefits of membership for those wanting to develop their creative writing lives and author careers.

Here are 7 reasons for you to consider:

  • Friendship
    Doing any activity with friends is more fun. Learning with friends creates a shared experience which deepens your relationship. Some of the greatest writers we hear of were part of a circle of equally prolific friends. Writing and learning from friends promotes healthy peer pressure and friendly competition to help each other mutually improve. It’s not just any kind of friendship, though — it’s genuine relationships with writers who get it.
  • Colleagues
    Creative writing life and an author career can be a really lonely path. It’s an odd sense of autonomy and independence. In some cases there are extended times of isolation. The separation from likeminded others can be demoralizing because those with whom you share daily life may not understand. A writing membership allows the opportunity for a community of professionals who understand the highs and lows, the motivations and the pains of the writing life, so they don’t need you to explain: they already all understand.
  • Inspiration
    Being in community with creative individuals will fuel your inspiration. When there is a collection of individuals meeting together, each creative perspective bounces off the other and compounds the creative joy. Staring out the window brings a certain amount of creativity, but being able to speak aloud your ideas in the presence of someone else who will ask you questions to provoke the further development of creativity can be super helpful, too.
  • Momentum
    There is a certain motivation that comes from belonging to a community with a monthly calendar. With a range of curated content such as accountability check ins, expert panelists, live Q&A sessions, or hot seat coaching sessions there is a rhythm to it. The rhythm of content inspires and perpetuates momentum. Done well, the membership content will be curated in a helpful pattern so as to help members take one step after the other, thus creating momentum, by keeping the learning and implementation in motion.
  • Curation
    The best memberships are created with a focused progression of activities, learning, and insights to help members move forward. Usually three to five stages allow members to self-identify where in the process they are and at which stage. This self-identification aspect is really helpful to reduce overwhelm. Often an argument against memberships in learning environments is that all of the information is out there on the internet for free, so why would we pay for it? It’s true: there is a lot of good information out there, but it can be really overwhelming and time-consuming to sift through it all. A membership’s materials are in order and the most important pieces are selected for members to focus on and curated in the best order possible, minimizing overwhelm.
  • Support
    Panels of experts are a tool to support your journey. For creative writing this can be one of the most significant parts of the membership journey because of the laser focus available. Memberships are often run by experts, but they are usually only experts in one or two fields. This is where panel interviews come in. The best memberships will listen to its members and schedule experts to address some of the widespread questions that will have a positive impact on the majority of the group. Members may encounter expert interviews on topics from daily habits to plot development, selecting an agent to cover design.
  • Answers
    When you are writing at a new level of growth with uncertainty at to what lies ahead, chances are you have a lot of questions. Many creative writing memberships have an opportunity to get answers to your questions. Some may have an easy to access search function to see if someone else had your same question and others may have a monthly live Q&A session. You may be given the opportunity to ask questions ahead of time to allow the panelists or membership organizers time to prepare or it could all happen live. But, most importantly is that memberships can provide answers that you need precisely when you need them, tailored to your current stage of the writing and authoring journey.

There you have it. Those were seven real benefits for you today of how you could really put a stake in the ground in your creative writing life and author career. There is no reason that you should ever feel alone. We are made for community and creativity, so a creative writing community is a no brainer. I have always loved the groups I’ve been part of as they’ve propelled me forward and my confidence grew. If you are serious about finishing your manuscript, finally getting your brilliant idea from brain to page, let’s get you the help you need.

Hey! I’m Molly Ovenden! Creative Writing Coach, Author, Visual Artist, at your service!


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10 Questions to Ask so You Can Habitually Finish Your Book(s)!

10 Questions to Ask so You Can Habitually Finish Your Book–or Books!

Is this you?

So many people loved writing when they were in school, but once adulthood set in, they believed they only had time for serious endeavors which don’t include writing. 

So many people believe they’ve got a book in them, but they feel scared or uncertain about starting, or just can’t seem to find the time. 

So many people have started writing a book, but haven’t finished because they’ve burnt out with perfectionism, fizzled out with fear about what others might think of them, or they procrastinated and ran out of time and motivation.

You don’t have to be one of these people. 

The fact that you’re here, taking in these words, shows me that YOU ARE A BRILLIANT WRITER! You’ve got a desire to learn, to get your words from brain to page, and to truly make an epic and life-changingly positive impact on the world.

You CAN do this. You CAN write this book. You CAN get your book published and into the hands of those readers who will devour your words.

When you find yourself struggling to show up for your daily writing or you’re at the edge of the finish line, but dragging your feet, here are 10 lovingly convicting questions to ask yourself (perhaps via reflective journal entry) to find the courage you need to follow through.

1. Who are you as a writer?

Identity is so important when we write. If you don’t know who you are, it will be really challenging to write authentically. Often writers resist becoming authors, resisting publication, resisting the accountability for finishing what you said was important. 

If you don’t know who you are, then you don’t have a certainty about whom you’re making this writing promise to, to finish your book. When you know who you are as a writer and creative and who you want to be, you begin to stand on a firmer foundation. You begin to live with more focus. Each action you take can bring you into life living as that person, or becoming someone else completely different.

Try this: I want to be a writer who (fill in the blank).

2. How does what you are actually writing resonate with who you are?

You might find that a reason you are struggling to make time every day for your creative writing habits is because it just doesn’t feel like you’re the one to write it. Are you writing something in the way you think it “should be written” or are you writing in a way that feels authentic to you personally and in your own voice? Do you actually need to write this? Or, is this writing something someone else could do instead of you?

Try this: Read a selection of your book out loud. How well does it read aloud? Take notes and make adjustments accordingly in revision time.

3. Who is your reader?

Think of a single person you are telling your story to. In your imagination, bring them into your room. Perhaps, if your ideal reader is a couple different people, set out metaphorical chairs in your writing room for these few people and then write like you’re speaking or reading to just them. 

You may argue your book is for more than these couple of folks, or even that it’s for everyone. That’s great! You’ve got massive vision. But, it’s important you speak directly to these individuals so your readers know the story is for them. If you speak to the crowd, it all tends to get muddy and harder for your readers to connect with you and the stories you’re trying to share.

Try this: Imagine your ideal reader sat in the chair across from you. Pay attention to what they are doing or saying and allow them to react and respond while you read and write.

4. How does what you are actually writing help your reader?

Think of your actual ideal reader. How is what you’re writing for them bringing inspiration or helping them learn or entertaining them? It can be tempting to write for the agent or publisher or your 2nd grade teacher who told you you’d never write anything good. 

But unless they are a picture of your ideal reader, don’t bring them into your living room to tell them your story. Writing can be a fight to get the words out. When you consider who your words will actually help, this can bring clarity and the second wind of endurance you need to finish strong.

Try this: As you already have your ideal reader sat in the chair across from you, read your words out loud to them. Think critically whether what you’ve written resonates with them. You may want to imagine their facial expressions. Even better could be to get your literal ideal reader together with you and ask them for focused feedback.

5. Why are you writing this book?

If you’re like most creative people, you’ve probably got heaps of inspiration and ideas mulling around in that imagination of yours. Knowing why you’ve chosen to write this particular one can be a gift of clarity to help you finish it. 

There was one point when it seemed like the best idea in the world to work on this book right now. Take a moment to remember why this is important to you. 

Also, think about some of the other books you would like to write. They won’t get written if you don’t finish this one. Use the promise of the next book you want to write to propel you onward. Perhaps you have a series in mind or a collection – those books need each other.

Try this: Make a list of reasons why you chose to write this book. Put the list somewhere you can see it regularly. Read it out loud to yourself as often as it takes.

6. What are you most excited about for this book?

If you’ve been working on this book for a while, it might have lost its sparkle from conception. Maybe you’re in the messy middle and it feels very messy and all you can think of is how much it’s going to take to clean it all up and make sense of all the mind mud. 

Maybe you’ve been saying things like this for months (to yourself and others), “I’m very nearly finished…I just have the last little details to polish…just one last bit to sort out…” This can be demoralizing and prolong the finishing.

Try this: Make a list of 3-5 aspects of your book that excite you. You may refer to some pieces on your previous list. And, you may use future books as an incentive to get excited enough to propel you to the finish. Put your list somewhere you can read it and remember as often as it takes.

7. What would happen to your readers if you never finished this book?

The reality is that perhaps nothing would happen if you never finished writing this book. But, consider your readers again. If you feel compelled to write something, to persevere through actually finishing a bunch of words in book form and getting it out into the world, then it’s likely worth finishing. 

It’s worth finishing because of who the words are for. Your readers may continue feeling sad and not knowing how to escape and if they don’t read your novel, they won’t learn about the magical land of Smorithinya and its mystical beings, the Carinchimpfs who can only fly with their eyes closed. If you don’t finish your book, your readers will never experience the connection they would have when they read your memoir – their feelings of being outcast and uninspired will remain. They will still be stuck in their issues and unsure how to go forward – even though your book, were you to finish it, would provide some answers.

Try this: Imagine: What would happen to your readers if you never finished this book?

8. What will it feel like to see people devouring your book?

You’ll never know the feeling of how your words impact the world in a positive way if you don’t finish writing your book and putting it out into the world. But to imagine how big of a rippling and far reaching impact that it could make? All of the potential it could have? If only you finished getting your words on the page and submitted. 

But, how cool to watch the delight in young readers’ eyes. How cool to witness the transformation in a person when you walk them through the step-by-step process of how you overcame obstacles. How amazing it will feel to hear about how much your book meant to your readers.

Try this: Imagine: What will it feel like to see people devouring your book?

9. When are you writing?

The human mind and emotions and body and soul are complicated. These all play a role in our stick-to-it-ness of finishing the book, but also toward how you feel during your writing times. 

Even though last season worked really well to write in the early morning, now the sun rises earlier and you find it too distracting to watch the sunrise. Perhaps you’ve changed your diet or exercise routine and now you need to make sure you eat before you write instead of after like you did last year. There are so many factors which it might be helpful to consider.

Try this: Take an honest assessment of the time of day, the length of time, the frequency each week. Assess what you’re doing before and after your writing time, too. Determine whether this is the best time and schedule for you to continue using. Make a change, if necessary.

10. What needs to happen for you to keep the momentum?

Sometimes life gets in the way and we need to restructure life and our writing schedule for them to work and play well together. Sometimes saying “no” to late nights with friends or family extras needs to happen for a season. Sometimes riding the wave of inspiration needs to happen even though it’s late into the night. 

What habits are preventing you from moving forward to cross the finish line? What habits would help to slingshot you across the finish? What is something awesome (or not-so-awesome) that has actually been keeping you from finishing? Even good things can hold us back. 

Try this: Consider what you could pause for a season that could help you finish your book. Then, have the conversation to get extra help. Buy noise canceling headphones. Put your writing pants on – whatever it takes, and keep the momentum.

That’s it. Those are the questions to ask so you can habitually finish your book–or, books!

Consider each of these questions as much as you need to, but please, don’t use trying to find the best answers for each question as another thing to prevent you from finishing your book. There are so many reasons which could prevent us from finishing. From health issues, to busy seasons at work, to creative blockages from fear, imposter syndrome, perfectionism. Whatever your “thing” is that’s preventing you from finishing, get some help. 

Do the inner work yourself to be able to address it with these questions and then you’ve got a starting point to get the help you need. Depending on the topic, you could be experiencing resistance due to the highly emotional content or you could be experiencing resistance if you feel like you’re not the most qualified person to talk about this issue or teach this subject. 

Perhaps interviewing an expert for your topic’s research could help. Maybe a session with a counselor could help un-pick what’s holding you back. An accountability writing group who meet regularly could be just the ticket. Enrolling in writing classes and hiring a creative writing coach could be just what you need. 

Do what it takes. Tell a friend. Ask for help. Remind yourself of the writer you are and who you want to be. Remind yourself of who will miss out if you don’t finish. Get your words out from your brain to the page and into the hands of readers who will devour your book! Put the stake in the ground and write. You can totally do this. I believe in you!

Happy writing!

Hey, I’m Molly Ovenden. Author, Creative Writing Coach, Visual Artist, Perseverance Expert. Let’s talk to see if working with a Creative Writing Coach is your next best step. Schedule your free call now.

7 Ways Gratitude Helps Us to Focus

Gratitude keeps us grounded, focused on the present. Being content is being thankful for what we already have. Thanksgiving allows a time of reflection on what’s happened, where we’ve grown, what’s surprised us, we count our life blessings and then we can look ahead with a hopeful attitude.

I can lose perspective when I’m not present here and now. I’m either daydreaming or looking ahead only we leaves me feeling stuck today. Holding past, present, and future up to God means they can all work together and not exist in unhelpful isolation.

Living in the Past
We all can learn from Napoleon Dynamite’s Uncle Rico that living in the past isn’t the best way to live. Being in the past alone can leave us feeling regret and hopeless because of what we didn’t do or something we wish we hadn’t done. Looking back constantly can also be full of fear of what’s coming from our past to bite us or rear-end us like in a car crash.

Living in the Future
But, living in the future isn’t ideal either. When we only look ahead, we’re always not yet there. We haven’t achieved that goal yet. We haven’t become that writer yet. Our goal posts keep moving as we make progress. When we focus on the future, we only see that we’ve not reached the finish line yet.

Living in the Present
Gratitude offers a different perspective. Gratitude allows us to be here today while keeping the tension in check. We can be thankful while holding onto the known of the past and holding onto unknown of the future. Gratitude gives us the opportunity to be a supportive observer of progress and supported holder of hope.

There are undoubtedly countless ways to grow in gratitude. Here are several reflections which I’ve found helpful to I engage regularly to live with gratitude:

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For the morning:
1. Today I am grateful for…
I look back at what’s happened recently and I take time to look around me. In the physical, I often notice the good about my home, my job, my family, my health and body. In the emotional, mental, and spiritual I often notice something that feels happy or something I’ve accomplished or how I’m experiencing my relationship with God.

I list 3-5 items or phrases that express what I’m thankful for in the morning.

2. What would make today great?
I consider what I hope to accomplish in the day and imagine what it’d be like if I could show up how I want to. Often my list of “great” comes what I want to accomplish and in some ways it can become a to do list. Other times it includes thoughts about being present or a mindset. We want every day to be great, right? So, I always intend to keep this reflection for items which I have control over.

I list 3-5 to do’s or to be’s in the morning as I look ahead to the day.

3. I’m thankful for these people:
I usually consider this in the morning and lift up 3-5 people that I feel particular gratitude for. Most days it’s my husband in one of the slots and usually it’s my coach, pastor, spiritual director, or friend who has helped me through something or stuck with me in something or for whom I simply feel full of love and gratitude.

Sometimes I spend a moment in the evening to thank God for the conversations that happened throughout the day with certain people. Whether morning or evening or throughout the day, noticing the people in my life in the here and now helps me. Acknowledging them points me toward progress made that they’ve helped me though and points me toward hopeful future with them in my community.

You might even consider writing one of these people a note or postcard to send in the mail. Or, perhaps a text or phone call would be better. Sometimes taking a moment to make a personal connection helps us experience more ingrained gratitude and passes on a feeling of thanksgiving to those whom we’re thankful for.

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4. Awesome things that happened today…
Usually I’ll reflect on this in the evening, but sometimes I’ll start in the morning to reflect on the previous day. I list 3-5 things that happened in the day that were a surprise, a relief, a moment of joy, an accomplishment, a gift.

Sometimes it’s amazing or awesome or really cool because it was a hard thing I was trying to achieve (like drinking more water than coffee or having a hard conversation with someone that resulted in a better situation) and it’s sometime awesome because I got to be with a person or was surprised by noticing God in a situation even when I wasn’t intentionally reflecting, but being present in the here and now.

5. How could I have made today better?
I usually list 2 things each night that I could have done better. It’s amusing how over time I can see the consistent struggle to run more frequently, do more yoga, eat healthier, go to bed earlier.

Like #2 with what we can do to make today great, this one is also a focus on things that are within the realm of our control where we’d like to improve. Noticing the regularities allow us time

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6. What did I learn today?
Looking at what I’ve learned allows me to realize that yes, indeed, I have made progress. My own tendency is to look so far ahead in the dreamland of “Wouldn’t it be cool if?!” if I’m not taking intentional action and noticing what progress I make.

A head in the clouds in fun for a time, but it’s not a healthy place for me to live as it’s a seed for despair when I only consider the lack of what hasn’t happened yet, since I dream of that which isn’t reality.

As a lifelong learner, I also want lifelong learning for others, so at the end of the day, I hope you’ll reflect. Whether it is “I learned that something is wrong with the toilet” or “I learned that I need to learn x” or “I learned how to plot my novel” each of these measure progress and paint a picture of transformation.

7. Where have I experienced God today?
This allows me to pause and spend time breathing, praying, asking God to reveal Himself to me. Even if this is a mere moment, I think spending a moment is better than never. I do this throughout the day and have had seasons of setting an alarm or calendar notification every couple hours to help me re-focus.

Some people would describe this as a time of contemplative prayer or an examen to reflect on consolations (all of the good, life-giving, invigorating things) and desolations (all of the bad, life-draining, wearing-out things).

If faith is important to you, I’d encourage you to do this each evening before bed and ask God to show you where He was at work over the last 24 hours. Even if faith isn’t important to you, I’d encourage you to consider where you noticed anything spiritual happening. Who knows what may come to mind?

How would you feel if you decided that TODAY is the day to become the writer you’ve always dreamed of being? Grateful?

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5 Benefits of Hiring a Creative Writing Coach

Why should I have a creative writing coach?

Everyone can benefit from working with a coach. There’s a saying, “If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together.” 

Writing is a long and detailed process. You could do it alone. It is definitely possible. Or, you could do it together with a coach and you are more likely to be able to complete it and get your powerful words out there and still want to write more after you finish.

As a runner, I can attest to the benefits of running in the company of another who is more advanced than I am. I have grown as a runner in healthy confidence and endurance. Training for my second marathon, I worked with a coach and was in a running group. When I crossed the finish line, I had shaved a massive 45 minutes, 3 seconds off my first marathon’s time. I know that it was having the support and accountability and training available in the months leading up to race day that helped me the most to be prepared to go further and faster…helping me to achieve my marathon goals of finishing the race and not needing to go to the hospital. My running coach helped me do that.

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As a writer, I can attest to the benefits of writing with others more experienced than I am, too. Whenever I have been in a writing class, in a writing group or worked one-on-one with someone who knows writing, my own writing has improved. 

Here are five ways a creative writing coach can help you on your writing journey:

  • Working with a coach can take away the pain of loneliness. Writing is an individual pursuit, often done in isolation with sound cancelling headphones at odd or unsociable hours of the day. Meeting with a creative writing means that you can come out of your writing cave every so often and talk with someone who gets it.
  • Working with a coach can provide motivation. Establishing daily creative writing habits can feel mundane, boring, draining, same-old-work-different-old-day kind of stuff. A coach can provide encouragement when you don’t want to write. A coach can remind you of why you are writing in the first place. A coach can celebrate your progress with you every seemingly miniscule step of the way.
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  • Working with a coach can help you overcome obstacles. Big projects take a lot of effort and you will get tired. When you get tired, or forget to eat, or get distracted by other important things, your coach can help you identify what is stopping you from making progress on your writing goals. They can listen to what you’re dealing with and provide resources to overcome what’s holding you back to help you get back on track.
  • Working with a coach can help you develop structure. Many writers would describe themselves as being really creative. Not as many writers would describe themselves as being really organized. A coach can help you identify your big writing goals and provide support and resources so you can develop useful habits and routines to reach your goals and become a prolific, fruitful, effective writer.
  • Working with a coach can help you access the expertise you need. Each coach has particular areas of expertise. Do your research when you look for a coach to make sure they can offer you the expertise you need. Most coaches will offer a free consultation or discovery call to assess whether they would be able to help you with your writing needs. Take advantage of this free call. It’s a dual-sided interview for the coach to see if they have the personality and expertise to help you achieve your goals, but it’s also for you to decide if you like the coach. This is usually going to be a long-term working relationship in which you’ll share a lot of your life and struggles as well as successes and celebrations. If you don’t feel like you can click with one coach, it’s commonly accepted that you reach out to a different one.

Whatever you choose to do in terms of hiring a writing coach, going the distance of a creative writing project is made easier when done in community. If going the distance with your words, hiring a coach could be your next right step. 

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Don’t Edit Before You Write: 7 Steps In Thoughtful Revision

You lean back, take a sip of your coffee and it’s cold because you’ve been writing for so long. You sip it anyway, a consolation prize to celebrate that you finished drafting your novel or your short story. Woo! You totally should celebrate. Many people get stuck in their first thoughts and this “stuckness” prevents them from ever actually having something to give to someone else to read.

Many writers ask the question about how to edit. I’ve asked it, too. It’s a great question to ask. An important question to ask. But what can be troubling is when writers ask the question about is when they are asking. Usually writers ask about editing too soon. Many times before they’ve even gotten their first draft words out.

Before anything else, get your first thoughts out.

While there is nothing wrong with asking the question, editing too soon can stunt the growth of the over piece of writing. From years of performance education or trying to please important adults in our lives, we want the first draft to be perfect before we’ve even written anything. This fear of getting imperfect words out stops us from writing.

  1. Get your first thoughts out. (Your first thoughts, not your perfect thoughts.)
    Allow yourself to express your ideas in a messy way. Through paint on the page and give yourself something to work with. Give yourself the freedom to think on the page. Meandering helps you to find the story you are telling.

    Even if you’ve done significant planning and outlining in a pre-writing stage before you have done any free writing exercises, there is still some wandering thoughts that will spill onto the page before the crystal clear idea appears.

    When we try to start writing with one editor on our shoulder and one art on our other shoulder, the artist is so scared of the editor that she will say the wrong thing and make the editor mad. This instigates feelings of paralysis.

    So, before you undergo editing, allow yourself the gift of wearing one hat at a time. First, wear your creative writing hat. Once you’ve written your first thoughts and put what you think is the majority of your main idea out on the page to read, then put your editing hat on.
  2. Read your whole piece over with a critical, but non-judgmental eye.
    Ask yourself some questions once you have an overall idea of what you have to say:
    a) What am I actually trying to say? What is the question I am trying to answer by writing this?

    b) What is the main point of this story/narrative/essay/thesis?

    c) Does what you’ve written add to that which you’ve determined is your main point? If yes, keep it. If not, get rid of it.

    If it feels too frustrating or scary to actually press delete forever on something you’ve written, even a few words here and there, don’t worry. You have options. You can either save a new version of the draft, or you can copy and paste your little sweetie words that you get rid of into a separate, new document to save for later in a different piece.
  3. Do a second read through with a closer, more critical eye.
    If your previous reading was assessing the situation and raking through what you wrote, think of this reading as using a large bristled brush to go through it all a little more up close.

    Ask yourself questions like:
    a) Do I need these words? Or, do I just want them? Why am I attached to them? Why do I want to get rid of them? What do they contribute to the main point? Where might they add confusion if they are left in? Where might they bring clarity if taken out?

    b) Do I love these words? Or, do I just like them? Why do you love or only like them? What could you write instead that you might love it? How can you sharpen what you’ve said by altering a single word or amending a phrase?
  4. Determine what works and what needs improvement.
    a) What aspects of this piece flow well and which have gaps that don’t make sense or need more explanation? Make notes of this to do additional free writing on the side to add to the large piece. Set aside time when you can put your creative hat back on, so that you don’t have to write with your editor paralyzing your creative process.

    b) What would happen if I did (blank) instead of (blank)? Think about going to the eye doctor, “Better with 1 or 2? 1 or 2? Or the same?” Sometimes playing around with language is necessary to be able to hone in the exactness of language required to communicate how you want to.
  5. Reassess whether you are saying what you want to say.
    What if you simply read what you have and then opened up a fresh document and rewrote it from memory? Chances are if you have written it from memory, the main points and important parts are there. Try this. Read a scene or the full story down and distill it into a paraphrase. If you aren’t able to paraphrase, then there is still work to be done on clarifying your message. If you can paraphrase, then on your next read through you can have even more confidence in what needs to stay and what needs to adjust.
  6. Think of your audience and use specific language to suit their needs.
    You can always go back to add more vivid details and specific imagery or cut it out when it gets too fluffy.

    Reading juvenile fiction is a great way to learn getting straight to the point with precise and direct description. Kids want to know what’s happening next and next and next–fewer, punchier, weightier words are more effective to get on with developing the story.

    Reading romance novels can be a great teacher in writing generally fluffy, descriptive language. Typically women (not always, though) want to feel everything that is involved within a romantic story. The details are important. It’s an escapism tool. Romance writers want to provide a satisfying place to escape to, within their story. Scenes tend to use more words, drawn out descriptions, and adjectives with a multitude of words which allows the reader to stay in the moment for longer.

    In this read through, determine who your audience is and whether the manner in which you’ve written suits them. Adjust your language accordingly.
  7. Read it out loud.
    Often our brain fills in the gaps and makes sense of nonsense for us when we are quiet, but when we read it aloud (as if) to someone (the audience we’ve determined in step #6), then we can hear what it actually sounds like. We can listen for how that reader would interpret what we are saying.

    Writing for a reader is different than writing for ourselves. We know what we mean and we can leave it at that. But, does our reader know what we mean? Sometimes we have to adjust our language. Consider the different ways you’d explain something to a five-year-old or your 95-year-old granny.

While it is tempting to try to be efficient in the free writing process by not writing freely, I strongly urge you to resist that temptation. Don’t edit before you write. Maybe this technique of editing as you go has worked for you in the past, but I believe (from my own writing experience and from watching others use these strategies) that allowing yourself the freedom to get the words out provides better writing over all.

Yes, some of the words in the free writing process will be garbage and you may be tempted to tell yourself you’re such a rubbish writer, but don’t. Be kind to yourself. Take your editing hat off and firmly secure your artist hat and allow yourself to express. Yes, even in a work of non-fiction. Take the limits off of yourself and go through these steps.

When we allow the floodgates of creative writing to wash onto the page, yes there is a bunch of not-so-great writing, but it also allows that magical gold goodness to come out, too. When we sensor ourselves, we don’t get to distinguish between the garbage and the gold. We slow the flow on all of our words.

You can TOTALLY become the writer you were made to be!

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If you are in the middle of a writing project and you’re stuck in an editorial mindset that you think is hurting your creative flow, I’d love to talk with you. As a creative writing coach, I work with people who are determined to become the writer they’re made to be. It’s a privilege to get to come alongside writers, young and old, experience and inexperienced and help take them to the next steps of audacious, prolific, and resilient writing. If this sounds like you, let’s talk.

Book a Discovery Call with me today to see if working together with me as your coach is your best next step.

Happy writing!

Just Chattin’ with K. A. Williams, Author of The Firebird Chronicles

Watch Kristen Williams be interviewed by Molly Ovenden.

Visit Kristen Williams’ blog and buy her books! https://k-a-williams.com/

Firebird and Olympus (Book 2 of The Firebird Chronicles) are available for purchase.

In this video, Kristen shares her writing process and the creation of The Firebird Chronicles as well as tips and advice for writers who long to get their words out there.

Join Kristen in her science fiction world with a full cast of strong women who lead the way on Mars in the year 3000. It’s a feisty, wild west, anarchy kind of place. Kristen loves following her characters down the darkened corridors of imaginative prewriting and really getting to know them.

  • Write
    Setting up a pattern of writing regularly trains your brain to be ready when the time to write comes along. Often people who want to be writers believe wrongly that writing comes as a muse and must only happen with the presence of the muse. Kristen says that it’s actually a habit of regularly writing that means when you come home from working your day job, you’ll naturally be thinking about writing your stories and mentally ready to work on them. Without the regularity of a writing practice, you may be inclined to plop down with pizza and a beer and make no headway on your special writing projects.
  • Read Writing Blogs
    Kristen says that learning about other writers means that inspiration can come from others’ perspectives on the writing life and process. She has loved Patrick Rothfuss’ blog, author of The Name of the Wind. Particularly beneficial, Kristen said, are his earliest blog articles. Reading how another writer (even the prolific, audacious, and resilient published authors) processes balancing writing with other aspects of life, writing to deadlines, carrying on conversations that feel real with their characters, dealing with imposter syndrome even after you’ve published, etc. can be exceedingly beneficial in the realization that the moments of madness that occur as a writer are normal, generally acceptable, and reassuring that you aren’t alone after all.
  • Read
    Reading fills our creative cups. Reading voraciously and widely perpetuations imagination and creative thought. It ensures that you think about your own writing whilst studying others’. Reading with pleasure helps remind you of part of the purpose you have as a writer: to connect with others through the words you put into the world.

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10 Habits That Can Improve Your Creative Writing

Seeing your name on a website or on the spine of a book can truly be thrilling. It’s a real sense of accomplishment. It might be literal blood, sweat and tears. Blood from all the paper cuts, sweat from your apartment writing space which lacks air conditioning, and tears from asking yourself over and over, “Why did I think this was a good idea?!” But in order to actually get the end result, ultimately of being a writer and, for many of us, to be a published author, we have to put in the work. This means developing habits that will positively contribute to getting the words out.

Here are ten habits you can work with to improve your creative writing:

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  1. Write daily. Truly, in order to improve your creative writing, you need to do it with regularity. The regularity that you practice it may alter with seasons and priorities, but know that the best way to learn, improve and excel at something is by spending some time every day on it. Now, when we talk about writing daily, it does not mean that you have to work on your sci-fi novel, publish a how to blog post article, write a chapter of your book on migratory habits of house finches.

    Writing daily as a habitual practice could be as simple as, every day, I will set the timer for ten minutes and, while I’m drinking my morning coffee or tea, I will write from a list of prompts. (Need some ideas? Click here.) Whether you write something for your current project or something simply for fun and silliness, it’s crucial to write regularly. This keeps the writing gears lubed up and freely moving to continue churning out creativity.

    Even if you manage less than a five minute chunk of free writing, as long as you’ve written something, that will work for you. Moving slowly is still moving. And as long as you don’t stop, it’ll be easier to keep going and pick up the pace when you can.
  2. Practice kindness. Is this you?: “I missed a day of my daily practice, so I might as well give up since I’m not literally writing daily.” That’s been me before with a myriad of habits from healthy eating to marathon training to creative writing. For instance, when I started a new set of thirty day prompts, I ended up missing Day 3 and Day 4! By Day 5, I felt like I was letting myself down. The reality is that I was feeling ill, the weather in my town was extra hot, and I had just moved to a different apartment.

    While it would have been nice to robotically churn out words to meet my daily word count goals, it was kinder for me to do what I ended up doing. Oh, well. I’ll start again tomorrow. And it is crucial to start again tomorrow and not let too much time go by. I evaluated if the word count was too high or the prompts too difficult. Neither of those was the issue, but I simply needed to take a nap with the fan on and eat a salad later when I woke up. And, I had work deadlines I needed to meet, so I worked on those with the energy I had. And, it’s OK. I don’t need to evaluate or cast judgement on myself and send myself into a shame spiral for being human (I’ve done that before and the results aren’t encouraging).

    Practicing kindness could look like lowering a word count goal or breaking up an hour-long session into 15 minute chunks (or a 15 minute session into 5 minute breaks throughout the day). Kindness toward your writer self could also look like writing about something fun for the pure silliness of it instead of writing the boring stuff that leaves you banging your head against the wall. Or, it could even look like simply skipping the “todays” of life that send us off track and choose to start again tomorrow.
  3. Follow the prompt. One way I enjoy writing is by using a prompt to get me started. A prompt is literally that: to instigate movement. Something that my students can struggle with is not feeling that they can stick with the same prompt throughout a writing session. I explain that it’s not about only writing about “my favorite sunny day” but, it’s really about writing how you feel while you’re writing, a memory of your childhood unicorn floaty or the sensation of sticky, sandy ice cream dripping on your beach towel. Normally, this wouldn’t be classed as a favorite day out. Instead, it sounds the opposite.

    But, in order to help your writing habits, you keep your pen moving and your keys clicking words out no matter how they come. Some days we will follow the prompt and get lost in the abyss of monkey butts, pineapple froyo and the hippie or hipster (hard to say sometimes) in the corner that’s all tattooed up and says he really loves the waves. Somedays what we write as we free write and follow the prompt, we allow the words to come out. We can use the joys of the editing process to sift out the golden goodness from a writing session when we’ve let the firehose of absurdity spray out from our pen. However, we have nothing to edit if we are too worried and particular about what we say and whether it’s precisely fitting in with the prompt exactly.
  4. Breathe. Breathing is an involuntary reflex that healthy bodies do without thinking about it. It’s something that simply happens. Sometimes, though, when we are writing and we don’t like what we are writing because it’s off track, lacks perfection, or we’re struggling with actually saying what we want to say, we need to pause and take a breath.

    Something that my coach continues to remind me to do when I’m feeling overwhelmed by so many projects and tasks is to do this, to pause to breathe, so I know that it can work.

    Breathing in through your nose for four seconds and breathing out slowly from your nose, too, for six seconds can help calm you down and bring clarity to your thoughts. Sometimes you might need to slow down for a moment to see what is literally in front of you. Breathing out slowly literally slows our heart rates, which can help us physically calm down. Slowing our heart rate and helping make our bodies feel more at rest, will help us to be able to write more.

    Try this: The next time I feel anxious or annoyed at myself or about my writing, I will pause and take three deep breaths in and out through my nose. You may find it helpful to close your eyes, too. Then, start writing again.
  5. Redefine what writing is. Much of writing, especially at the start of a project, involves literal writing. However, when you are in the midst of a project, sometimes writing involves different practices which contribute to the end result. A place that some people can get stuck is by having a strict definition of what writing is.

    Writing is about researching the occupational duties of your main character, about editing and refining your words to tighten a scene, about going with a free writing prompt wherever it takes you (even to a different city than where you’re writing about), about reading something someone else wrote in a similar genre or on the same topic.

    Writing to get the words out is an essential part of the process, but it is not the only part of the process. If you want to be a writer, then you will spend time writing and that will be your primary focus to be a writer. But, if you want to be a published author (ghostwriting blog articles, writing a mini e-book on your favorite topic, writing a series of YA fantasy rom com novels), there is a lot more that counts toward writing time. And each of these additional tasks need to be part of your writerly schedule and habits.
  6. Read widely. “I only like reading westerns by Louis L’Amour, though.” If you would like to improve your creative writing habits, you might have to break out of your usual reading niche nest and spread your writing genre wings. Reading widely can help you gain understanding and insight on a wide range of topics that will stimulate various parts of your brain that aren’t normally engaged. Reading widely can educate you about a different way of presenting information or saying something in an articulate manner. And, reading widely can help you break out of a rut. We can get so used to how something is that we forget that there’s a different way. Reading from a variety of authors and genres can offer alternative routines to train the formation of different pathways, that scientifically speaking, literally grows your brain.

    Where can you find new genres? There are a ton of resources out there. I have a whole board on Pinterest called, “Books Worth Reading,” that you’re welcome to peruse. The pins there come from a variety of places and people. Some are actual lists of what some say are the best books that coming out in Summer 2021, while others are lists of ideas to find books to read (ex: read a book about an ex-convict, read a book with unicorns, read a book that takes place in Turkey, read a book that take place in the 1920s, etc.).

    You might also talk to your local librarian or a local bookseller and they will be more than happen to recommend popular titles or titles they have recently enjoyed.
  7. Read as a writer. Usually writers want to write because we enjoy reading. We want to give others that experience of producing a page-turner that will inform and entertain and pass time in a pleasant manner on a day off or when we need one, but can only escape for a few minutes at a time.

    One habit to take on to improve your writing is not only to read widely and regularly, but also to read with a writer’s lens. Ask yourself questions about what you read to understand how it helps you write better.

    Try questions like:
    *How did the writer create tension in this scene?
    *Why did the writer choose this word instead of a different one? How might the meaning or mood of this paragraph or page or chapter or book change were they to have used a different word?
    *Which technique did the writer use to structure the plot or the develop the character in this instance?
    *What would my dialogue interactions be like if I tried working with conversation like this writer has done, but for my own characters?

  8. Take a creative writing class. I am a lifelong learner and I am a teacher, so I will always promote taking classes in whatever you choose to want to improve in. By investing time and money into a class, you’re proving to yourself and others around you that your creative writing craft is important and valuable to you.

    Enrolling in a class can be really helpful for scheduling out regular time to devote to your creative writing habits. There is an accountability that comes with putting your money down, you have “skin in the game” we call it in the coaching and education industry. And, I know it’s true from my personal experience. I’ve made that monetary commitment, so I will make that time commitment, too. Plus, there are cool people who are also taking or teaching the class that you want to connect with about writing. It can all be very exciting.

    We can use our excitement about someone else’s work to inspire our own, also. When we are in community, we have the opportunity to experience life in a different manner and in a varied context. Habitual learning in community in a safe space like a classroom, whether virtual or in-person, can really improve your creativity. I make it a habit to take classes to improve my creative pursuits and in seasons when I am working on something else, I’m more able to keep the concepts front of mind and remain in a creative mindset because of the learning, rather than getting stagnant because I don’t have time for it all.
  9. Go for a walk. It’s a simple one, but the act of getting up from your chair and getting blood flowing in your legs and feet when you’ve been cramped up trying to knock out all of those words, can bring a new lease of life into your writing time.

    Physically walking helps promote healthy circulation (including to your extremities: you need your little fingers to be able to type, but also to your brain, which you need to imagine all these amazing ideas to write down), but there are other benefits of walking when it comes to writing habits.

    Going for a walk means you can engage all five senses without technology impeding them. Your eyes get a break from looking closely at a notebook or at your computer screen and they can take in all the colors. Walking so you feel the sensations of hitting your foot on the ground. Smell the seasonal air, a neighborhood bakery, that businessman’s cologne. Taste your gum or your need for it (maybe this triggers a story scene for an apocalyptic tale where clean water doesn’t exist anymore). Listen to birds chirping, the elderly neighbor shouting hello to the mail carrier, the motorcycles gearing up for the weekend ride.
  10. Submit your writing. While submission can be a goal, it can be scary, and it can become a habit that doesn’t get held back by emotions and what ifs. There are countless online resources available for submission. Maybe you could post a blog daily, submit a short story to a contest once a week, send a query letter to an agent a couple times a month.

    Practicing submitting not only trains your brain to work to deadlines, but also to be able to handle rejection. The fear of rejection can be a massive hurdle, but it doesn’t have to be. One of the ways to overcome rejection is to realize that it’s the writing piece, that has a life of its own, that is being rejected. This can happen for a whole host of reasons: the contest received so many submissions that only one of one thousand submissions could be chosen; the agent is currently at capacity and isn’t able to take on another author at this time (even though they loved your work); or the online e-zine has already received enough pieces in the genre you submitted, so they are actually looking for work in a different genre.

    The practice of submission encourages a habit of completion, a habit of sharing, and a habit of writing something new. When you practice submitting writing you become resilient, audacious and prolific. You give yourself the change to actually become an effective writer because you put in the practice of showing up to the page.

There are many other habits which can help us improve our writing, but I hope that these few above can help you grow into a brave and effective communicator through the written word. Which one of the above ten ideas will you try implementing this week? Let me know how it goes–comment below!

Happy Writing!

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SciFi Daily Prompt 3

This month, I’m participating in Camp NaNoWriMo. My goal? I have never written science fiction, but would like to because anything can happen! I think it’s really fun and the type I will be writing is silly and non-sensical…likely with made up science and technology because I’ve never understood that stuff very well. I am aiming to write 500 first thought words each day in the morning to put my own writing projects first and get all the creative juices flowing. I’ll be using my Science Fiction Prompts resource I created for my clients and students.

I’ll practice free writing so I will not be editing afterward or during. The only things I might change are if there are obvious spelling errors as I’m going along. Otherwise, this is purely straight from my wild mind and onto the page…eek!

Feel free to join me or follow along.

Day 2 Prompt: This gave a whole new meaning to garbage disposal.

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Daily Goal: 500
Word Count: 584

This gave a whole new meaning to garbage disposal. The birds circled the area with increased lazy pursuit. They feigned a lack of interest when they were hungry for new garbage. Their own flesh and their own blood was no longer satisfying these cannibal black feathered monsters. They were bigger than the ravens on earth. Their eyes were beadier than those glassy, balck-eyed creatures. And their eyes were redder than the earthlings. These giant raven aliens’ feathers were broader and wider than those on earth. Their necks sagged with the gagaciousness gagging throat skin, hanging with that wretchedness of those of turkey vultures, but these seemed more demonic than the rubbish collectors on earth. Their eyes flitted and darted about the rows of houses, looking for a twitch, for a waft of a stench. There were few areas cleaner and tidier than Locklandaga, the major city on Noro’s largest moon, of the habitable moons, Newtein. Locklandaga held a special meaning to those who lived, or survived there. It was all about perspective. They were able to start fresh. These birds were part of that fresh start. The garbage was never collected in a refuse area or dumpsite, instead these giant birds would circle and prey on and clean up what was left over and these aviary magicians would make the clutter and disgusting ick disappear. For the Chorrupsi family, Locklandaga was a sign of promise, the black birds were signs of hope, signs to erase everything that was wrong about their previous lives before they came Newtein and trekked to find Locklandaga. So many things had passed in their minds as they meandered and miraged, held hands in fear of what mind come from behind a dune and rear their maggoty heads at them. The Chorrupsi family consisted of the mother and father, Lina and Tim and their five children, Corai, Newla, Nita, Seb and Trulobe, each named for gods on their home planet of Nextine. They had struggled once the new emperor, Nonthroganoshticoy had taken power. He had overthrown the, at the time, current infrastructure and enslaved some of the workers immediately. He hoped that they would submit to him right away and then convince the rest of the peoples of how beneficial it was to follow him. But, Nonthroganoshticoy was mistaken. There was a brutal battle waged by the initial group of enslavement. Lina and Tim took their whole Chorrupsis right away via escape vessels run by rebels to surrounding moons of nearby planets. Noro orbited Newtein in a chaotic and wobbly manner, often making the scientific groups question the trajectory of the moon, but they’d studied it for years and it always got back on a suitable course, so far at least. The Chorrupsis didn’t feel they had a choice. They simply had to get out. They felt tremendous gratitude for the pilots of the escape vessels. They were good people, the Chorrupsis and they felt like they deserved a fair chance to raise their girls in a place free from fear and whilst they felt afraid, they wanted to allow their girls an opportunity. Newtein was a place out of necessity that really did dispose of all of the garbage in the Chorrupsis lives. They wondered if it would always feel like a time of gratitude. They wondered if these birds would present a new sense of fear, but could it be that these large black birds could be like those on earth, symbolizing the embodiments of change and transformation?

Why are you doing this?(one way to think about goals)

“Why?” 

I’ve always been curious. This annoyed my family. There’s a joke amongst my siblings and me, since I’m the youngest, that I have the biggest mouth. I was little when they teased me and I would widen my mouth to show them…I didn’t realize right away they meant I talked too much. One time my brother tape recorded me (remember those cassette players? push the red button for record!) without me realizing…and, then he played it back to me. 

Don’t worry, I’m not scarred for life–hah! But, so much of my talking as a little kid revolved around curiosity. As annoying as it is when a little kiddo drones or squeaks, “Why? Why? Whyyyyy?!” I think that it’s something we can take into our adulthood.

Why are you doing what you’re doing?


Try this: list out your big five time commitments within a week. (Did you do it? Okay. 😉 ) Then, literally write out the question, “Molly, why are you running for so many hours each week?” “Molly, why are you spending your time reading books?” So on and so forth. After you ask yourself the question, write out your answer. You can have many answers for each. 

For instance:

I run because I am strong.

I run because I want to grow in perseverance.

I run because it’s something hard that I can actually do.

I run because it’s really great to be outside and sweat.

I run because it’s a way I connect with God.

OR

I read because I love collecting knowledge.

I read because I feel happy when I do it.

I read because it’s one of those things that I liked doing as a kid and I want to be more child-like.

I read because I want to learn how to be a better writer.

I dare you…let your curiosity get the best of you. 🙂

When you understand your “why” then, your daily choices make more sense to go in that direction to re-inforce your “why” and your purpose. And, sometimes, you might find that you don’t know why you do something. This could be really great insight into something that isn’t how you actually need to be spending your time to become who you’re made to be. If this is the case, then writing your “because” statements can actually help you get back on track to be who you actually are.

Are you struggling to answer your “why’s”? Let’s have a chat! Send me an email and we’ll be in touch.